DG:
I feel for you. Hang in there. Several of my friends are encouraging me to go for the D when W is here for a visit next week. Don't really know what that would do for me. I miss my W terribly. She has given up everything - home, job, friends, our M - and moved 1500 miles away. This is her deal, her turmoil, but I am overwhelmed and devastated.

We both need to be strong and believe in ourselves. I don't know why these things are happening to us, but we need to be strong to make it through. Despair will eat us alive. We cannot give in to the funk. We need to be strong and keep moving forward. Tomorrow is a new day. One step at a time. Hang in there.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012