V that is some carthartic thinking you are doing.

sometimes we can get so focused on the pain and pushing it away, we stunt the process of healing which requires feeling the pain.

I used to tell people here that your pain will guide yiou through this process.

It is true and I still beleive it but only if you allow yourself to listen to it. To feel it.

To look it right in the face and decide whether it serves you anymore.

If you want it part of your life anymore.

That applies to every stage of healing of the LBS.

From detachment to acceptance.

And the very cool thing is you find it applies to everything and everyone in your life.

That it is part of life.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am