Will she be staying with you or somewhere else? If she is staying with you, that will make it more difficult for you to always be looking your best, confident, and in charge while you are interacting on a daily basis. It is virtually impossible for you to be looking chipper at every moment, we all have moments of weakness. If she is not staying with you, that puts you in a much better position, since you can sort of pick and choose the places, times, that you meet. I think (from my experiences over the last 4 months) that in general,if financially feasible, it would be better for WAW to immediately move out, get their own place, so that they dont see you on a daily basis battling your hurt and grief, and they will get to experience what life will be like without you.
Just my thoughts, either way, you can control how you present yourself and your demeanor, and I agree with 25 that it is vitally important for you to continue to do what seems to come natural to you, i.e. remain friendly, cordial, and supportive of her in general, not necessarily the choices she has made, but her.
Good luck buddy!
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
