WAW in Los Angeles

[wawinla]

Try not to stay off of it as much as possible. She has a bunch of thoughts going through her head.. and she felt comfortable to share that with you.

My w did that too.

Don't make my mistake of attaching hope and expectation to those words. Or attaching the "why's" to some of her actions.

V...as always, grateful for your insight/input.

That's part of being tortured, wanting to hope, but my brain realizing that nothing's really changed.

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Don't over think your conversation WAW.

Remember - Believe none of what your w says and 50% of what she does.

It's challenging walking the line between detachment and not getting drawn into the emotions.

I mentioned something on IS thread that bares repeating. If you keep working on you and she notices..eventually the reasons she left you turn into excuses for not dealing with herself. Otherwise why leave you? She will either come up with new reasons or dig deep inwards for the answer.

Until the 2nd happens, she most likely won't move towards you.

Definitely true. I sensed that last week particular evident with statements such as "it's too late".

Keep working on you. Look for any valid points she may brought up in the conversation and see if you want to tackle them.

Keep on..keeping on.

Thanks V. I hope you're hanging in there too.