And since someone will ask I found out because she got home late last night and I think drunk. She was so out of it she left her phone downstairs. I saw it and looked. I know, I know, 2x4 please. This is exactly why you don't look. The OM was there before I looked and is there after. The only difference is instead of being uneasy about it I get to be in intense pain about it. Yay for me. And I can't do anything about it directly... even better.
I should've just left well enough alone. Guess I had to learn the hard way.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD