Hi snodderly, myself and son are doing brilliantly thankyou, I really hope you are well also. son is in his second year at college and becoming quite a young man in so many ways, he has come on in leaps and bounds after his knock backs from his father, I have to admit that it all took its toll on son and he lost rather a lot of education because of this, however he is back on the right path now and flourishing, I am a proud mum, I have a lovely son and I am sure that he will be there for me as I have been for him, as for his father well that is a different story, son really does not want to be bothered with his father, in his own words his father screwed his head up once he is not going to get chance to screw it up again xxxx