IS and JB, thank you so much for the support. I know you're probably right about him pushing my buttons, and he absolutely knows that is my weak spot. She is my whole world, especially now.
25, I can't thank you enough- you have no idea how much your post means to me. I read it last night right before I went to bed, and that is the most sleep I have had in a long time.
I have been going back through texts and I think I can document most if not all of this since the separation. I have also started a daily journal, with any and all contact/activities/etc.
You are so right about the fear, it is paralyzing. His friends call him 'the vengeful one' and he is all about intimidation. I will remember and follow your advice about the monsters under the bed.
As far as your advice to 'shut up'- I needed and deserved that! Sometimes I am my own worst enemy that way. I need some tough love I think, so thank you. Have you ever been thanked for telling someone to shut up?
BTW- he hasn't even spoken to her or asked about her for 2 days now...crazy, this is not the man I married.
