Thanks Danl...a appreciate the insight, i have tried to understand were he is comeing from for years regarding the drinking and you have helped a lot with that!
for some reason your post did not show up and just found it this morning, at the exact time i needed to...his behavior is confusing to me right now, not anything it has ever been before or since he has stopped drinking so it was very helpfull..thanks for the encouragment..


Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...