Well apparently it wasn't true. I confronted her about it over the phone, and then spoke to some other people at the party and it wasn't true. A guy was hitting on her all night, but nothing happened.

We spoke for about 30min and both cried the whole time. She sounds sad about us, but reiterated her position of not being in love with me. She just texted me saying sorry I feel this way, but her decision is final and she is not changing her mind.
I think i still have to give up. This is such a waste.
Aeo this has been a learning experience, I've learnt a lot about who I am and how I am in relationships. I know what NOT to do now.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011