thanks 25---- i know it happens... smile I am SOOOOOO sad for my boy. He needs us both and it is so insane to me that W can just move on..... She gives lip service to his well-being. BS. He calls for BOTH of us morning and night. If it was just W and I.....ok.... but my S. He is my world.

If she does move out.....yes, I will play the cards as dealt. I will continue dbing my best. But my god......poor little dude. He has no idea what is really going on and I wish I could shield him from it. SHE is doing what she needs now..... BUT I am SO angry b/c of the effect on my baby. GD it I'm so sad tonight.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed