I do love this thread! I feel as though I need to be very careful though because I know my WAH EXPECTS me to run off with someone. He is seeing an OW.
Fortunately we see each other and have decided to do something together at least once a week. He came over for dinner 2x last week so I sent him an email that said, "Your turn, where are you taking me this week?" He was less than commital about it so I replied, "I have a date this weekend so I need to know ASAP so I can arrange for my mom to take D." He didn't say anything for a few days and then in a completely unrelated email said, "By the way...What's this about a date?" I responded to everything in the email EXCEPT that question.
My plan, if pressed, is to tell him about this gorgeous young guy I am meeting, with dark eyes and curly light hair. That we are talking about him moving in with us ASAP because I know am going to fall in love with him immediately! He works in the therapy field, he is wonderful with children and loves to go for walks and to be outside. He is 2 years old and weighs about 14 pounds, is house trained and is a poodle mutt.
Can't wait to see the look on his face and have a good harty laugh with him!
Peaceful ~ I believe in true and everlasting love. Me 33 SO 38 D 10
Not sure if this is going in the right direction. But this is what my mystery has accomplished. Below was a IM conversation from with my W [Reply: laurie @ 11:40 am] sorry - i emailed you back! tomorrow is fine how r u doing?
[Reply: rick @ 11:42 am] I am doing very good
[Reply: laurie @ 11:42 am] Glad to hear that! Are you seeing someone?
[Reply: rick @ 11:46 am] I have some very good friends. But I am focusing on myself right now and been doing a lot of soul searching.
[Reply: laurie @ 11:53 am] I'm glad u r doing well! I really do want you to be happy!
My intention was not to make her happy. I'm not seeing anyone. I have just changed my hair, dress etc. And of course I'm always acting happy around her even though it is all I can do to not fall a part every time I see her. What should I do next
Last week my WAW emailed me about the cable bill. Since we are separated and I am currently dark, I took the opportunity to do the following:
A. Not answer her email immediately. I waited until the next day.
B. Waiting worked in my benefit because I just happened to be going out of town for the weekend so I stated at the endo of my email the following "...more later gotta finish this project cause I'm leaving work and taking a half day cause I'm going away for the weekend."
She ended up emailing me back and made no mention that I was going somewhere just made mention of our dog.
I feel as though I need to be very careful though because I know my WAH EXPECTS me to run off with someone. He is seeing an OW.
I responded to everything in the email EXCEPT that question.
how r u doing?