(((((HUGS))))) IS. Please let her go in your heart and mind. Stop arguing and talking to her. I know how hard that is but stop mind reading what her plans are because you don't konw and it hurts you. You can't work on you if you are busy thinking of her next steps (easier said than done but we will get the hang of it). Look the more I pull away from my W the more she talks to me. Pretty weird stuff. I am starting to think that even though I have been a screwy H at times, my W has also. The difference is that I'm here changing and she is not. W is not working on herself at all and neither is yours. So remember that we here are special people never forget that. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
