Not sure if this is going in the right direction. But this is what my mystery has accomplished. Below was a IM conversation from with my W
[Reply: laurie @ 11:40 am]
sorry - i emailed you back! tomorrow is fine how r u doing?

[Reply: rick @ 11:42 am]
I am doing very good

[Reply: laurie @ 11:42 am]
Glad to hear that! Are you seeing someone?

[Reply: rick @ 11:46 am]
I have some very good friends. But I am focusing on myself right now and been doing a lot of soul searching.

[Reply: laurie @ 11:53 am]
I'm glad u r doing well! I really do want you to be happy!

My intention was not to make her happy. I'm not seeing anyone. I have just changed my hair, dress etc. And of course I'm always acting happy around her even though it is all I can do to not fall a part every time I see her. What should I do next