Sure, plan for the worst, but let yourself hope for the best (not = expectations), just a streak of optimism that means
whether she's with you or no, you will be fine b/c you are good catch, you are a man only a fool would leave.
Show her that guy!
Let your last contact with her give her some 2nd thoughts so on the dark nights that she's alone, memories will come back to her, & she can recall the man she left - was a man to love... _________________________
Seismic, kaffe.... Thanks for the thoughts. Your words mean alot. I am going to make this a good week. I am a good person who has changed much for the better, and she would be a fool to leave me. The handwriting may be on the wall, but I am going to move forward standing tall and proud. Maybe she will see what she is doing is not the best move, or maybe not. I will not let this pound me into the dirt. I just can't.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012
