yellowbrickroad, Thank you for the update. I am very, very sorry to hear this news. I will keep Yellow Rose and her family in my prayers. Prayers are a powerful tool and let's all pray for her. She's been a wonderful friend here and she deserves every thought ad prayer that we can send her way.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.