25, I have read some other posts on here from you, all great advice. So let me ask you something. Word got back to me the other that my H still wants a divorce, but after the divorce we can start over with a "clean slate". That doesn't make sense to me. I feel like if I agree to this, he is playing me. I really don't know what to do or say when he finally approaches me with this offer. Any advice? I love him very much but I am so confused on what to do. All my friends tell me that when he approaches me with this offer, I should tell thanks but no thanks. And let him file the papers. Which I will not help at all. I appreciate any advice you can give me. Thx