Reconnecting with family after not talking to them for 12 years?!
Too bad you changed too late?
Afraid of the cougar label?!
She misses and loves you?
Ok it COULD be a game, but you're not going to fall for that right....
Because if you did it would prove to her what a pushover you are and why you are not a worthy mate.
On the other hand she may be finally realizing that the grass really isn't greener. Listen your detachment is working on her, even if not for you. Keep it up. Show yourself and her that unlike her you can find your own happiness, don't be surprised when she comes running to you because she sees how together you have it while she squandered everything and found herself just a miserable.
