Just discovered that ow is coming back Nov 2nd.. Mixed feelings, but why do I care? That's the day I move.. I went to sign the lease the other day and they aske if I could move on the second as the unit has to be painted once the current tenant moves out..

H doesn't know yet.. He never told me ow is coming home one the 2nd. He's suppose to help me move, I wonder what time shes coming, I wouldn't be surprised if he changed his mind about helping.. And wouldn't be surprised if ow moved right in.. That would kill me.. But the fact is after I leave he is a free man to do whatever..

Should I try to reschedule the move for late on the first or leave it for the second?


Me: 28
H: 40
Together: 10yrs
Married: 6 yrs
OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011
I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011
H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012