Hi everyone, trying to be strong for the kids and less pathetic to my ex but I am still in shock. She is hopeful I turn my depression around and find happiness for myself and our children. She says she will never be in love with me again and just doesn't have those feelings anymore. She does say that we may be better friends at the end of the day and that I should be content with that. She says that she knows she has tried everything to make our marriage work but realizes that she is now "done". From my perspective, I know I have so much more to give, to try and improve and to be better for her, us and our family. I am terrified it is too late. Can DB'ing really work if only one person is trying, at least in the beginning?