I was just reading through some threads on here and the word that keeps popping up is CHANGE. We make the changes for us not for anyone else. Real changes take hard work they don't happen overnight. Stop worrying if your WAS notices just worry about yourself. I have a friend who never made any changes after her H left her. She was adamant that he was the one with all of the problems. Guess what? She is in a new relationship with the same issues as before and is now blaming her current boyfriend for the same things that her Ex was doing. I see a pattern here. Make those changes for yourself. Become a better you. Let go of the anger and the bitterness. Learn how to love yourself first. Do the damn work!! (Right Jack)?
