OK, I've moved over to the "I'm thinking about leaving" forum...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2192734&

I'm actually more than thinking, but until the D is done... as we say around here... it ain't over...

But I want to move on now and I believe any choice is a good choice... because the alternative is making no choice... and thereby remaining stuck... I choose to be stuck, no more...