my h and I separated 2 months ago and we have children so we still speak, at first he discussing divorce, but now its more about him getting stronger to deal with all his stresses, he says he saw the years going by faster and faster and nothing was getting better so he decided to make a change, he said he was miserable unhappy and sad. He also said he hates his job and pretty much was ready to end his life. If it werent for our kids. He says he has resentment for me for something that happened years ago. He said he needs to deal with his issues and I need to be patient. Now he is mentioning having lunch, he says work is getting better, and some of his other things seem to be improving. He said there is still hope he just doesnt want it to go back to the way it was and right now that is all he can think of. I am really confused because he says this to me on the phone or to my face but his text messages have been more negative. He was diagnosed bipolar years ago and never follwed through with the treatment. It is not uncommon for him to just "kick" people out of his life, (his mom, his brother, his close friends etc) and then bring them back in.. I am not sure as to what to do now. He really doesnt respond well to anything and he says when I ask questions I am only pushing him further away. I am so confused.
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
