Ok. I tried this. First the particulars. W informed me yesterday that she would like us to live like Demi Moore and Bruce Willis. You know, live separetly, co-parent the kids, take vacations together (with OP as well), etc.
Last night she went to a bday party and came home at 6:30am. Wearing different clothes then when she left.
Here is what I did:
I set the alarm on my cell phone to ring at 7:18am, and changed the alarm tone to the same as the ring tone.
Her "friends" text and call her 24x7. I think this is the rudest thing in the world. When I'm at home, my cell is usually turned off. She keeps hers with her, even in the bathroom. Last month she had a 40 page cell phone bill.
W gets in the bed and is actually saying some positive things for a change, like "would I be interested in going to church", etc. Then my cell phone rings.
My one sided conversation went like this:
"Hello?" "um....sure" "....laugh...pause" "didn't we talk about that enough last night?" "....laugh...pause" "Well why didn't you just say So!" "ok, bye!"
W hit the roof. "WHO IS CALLING YOU THIS EARLY IN THE MORNING?!?!!?" Never mind that I'm not allowed to ask her where she is going, or with whom. Anyway, I told her that it was non of her business who is calling me. W immediatly threw on some sweat pants, jumped in her car and sped off.
This is typical of her. When she calms down, I'll reap the results. It just feel's so underhanded.....
