First time in this area ... need some suggestions for mystery, etc.
Separated for 1 year and trying to get the H's attention, and have him begin to CARE if he loses me or not.
One thing: what do you do/say, if the H/W asks for complete explanations of the why's and what's of the things you're doing mysteriously?
What if you're not forthcoming, he says if there's no real honesty, there's no relationship? You don't want to 'lose' him .. but want to 'wake' him up.
I know my H would insist on answers and would want to know "IF" indeed there were somebody else. I'd have to be honest with him, if there's not .. then there goes all the mystery.
