Wow, totally having thoughts of just relenting on my position for no sleepovers. I know it's attached to my wanting to so badly to go to this meet-and-greet conference for coaching. But I'm also realizing that all that control is exhausting and not serving me. And that while I might lose my advantage in court if I let D stay with exBF that weekend and just go off, I also realize I have no interest in taking exBF to court over this. That I wouldn't *actually* fight him on over nights. Or much of anything for that matter. Yes, I want to be open to talking about us arranging something that works for everyone. And he could take me to court, and I'd lose b/c he'd have stayed with her overnight by my allowance - and that would feel sucky. IDK.
