Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[25yearsmlc]

well said Jack3.

SSM this is it. You DO say conflicting things. One day a sexless m is not okay with you and the next day, you say there's more to m than sex.
Yeah we get it. We know there's more to it. But you post HERE like it's a big thing and we all think so too.

If my h were unable to perform, I'd deal with it. I would not divorce him.

But If he CHOSE not to ml to me, that'd be another matter.

For my m, that would mean something key was wrong or off. For my marriage, it would probably be the end.

But I have not gone for years without. You have.

We've asked before and I'll ask one more time, what do YOU want?

If you say "the impossible" then I don't know what I'm supposed to do with that except go elsewhere to help someone who doesn't want what is impossible.

If you are alright with a sexless marriage, then so be it. Like I said, if my h could not physically have sex, we'd have a sexless m...although I tend to think we'd get creative...but I could learn to live with his injury in some way, without breaking my vows. Maybe that's how you have to see your w?

We know you don't "like" having a sexless m but you have accepted it for years...or have you?

I can't tell anymore b/c you dance around the FWB issue and cheating issues and act as if telling her would be cruel...but not telling her and doing it isn't.

All I know is the "oh, I'm so stuck" routine is wearing thin.

Make a choice.