WAH - It's getting ugly

[25yearsmlc]

well THIS^^^ sounds like a plan!!

I would not be surprised if he has an "aha" moment down the road, looks up & around and asks, "where is everyone?"


And you'll be at your "home" with the kids living your life. And when he returns from the next deployment, you can see how things go. You can send him "milestone" moments of the kids' first day of school, a team game, etc. No expectations but showing him what he's missing, without being obvious about it. NOT "wish you were here"

but "FYI, son hit a home run today with 2 runners on base, to win the game..."


When he returns, Will YOU be the same woman? How will YOU change your life?

How would marriage to you from this day forward, be better or different?

those are things you can work on, and they are KEY to successful living or reconciling...whereas whatever he's doing/feeling/thinking/planning, are NOT within your control.

Letting go of things over which you have no control, is a freeing act.
Embrace it.