jb - the dinner invite is interesting. Y'all haven't eaten together as a family in a while, correct? I wonder if she was feeling down and needed a friend, or if was a subconscious softening of her stance on the sitch.

Something else stuck me in your last post that resonated with me. My W has mentioned 2-3 times over the past two weeks that she's not happy with her career choice and wants to improve herself go to school so that she can make changes.

I am thinking it's a trait of the WAS... that they just aren't happy over all and don't know why. Martial relationship and career are really two of the basic building blocks of a person's soul. If they are having difficulty in both of these areas, its probably a result of some deep down confusion.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012