I am continuing to move ahead. The question about OW was really just that- a question. I don't know why or how it will go in our m but was just wondering about that cause you read so much of how they greive when they lose or break up with that OP.
I know they "why's" don't matter. I will NEVER understand much of this. And, I do not plan to ask him either. Because either he lies or I might hear something I will never forget. WHy do that to myself. I find myself asking him less and less questions all the time.
As far as the kids- I was just wondering if it was still the shame keeping him away? BUt, I suppose I don't need to know that either. All I know is that it hurts the kids soooo much. The oldest even said again- maybe he just doesn't really like us.
