I think the idea of getting new rings is a great one. How can you not see the positivity in that statement of HERS? Geez don't ignore hope when it is thrown in your face...
She means you could have a new m between you two. (If you don't blow things)
Maybe next year that can be your goal, getting her to recommit to the m by your next anniversary. That does not mean you have to be in limbo hell until then
but as for a true recommitment, next year makes more sense.
For now, be loving to her. Not needing for you, but loving to and for her.
It might be a first for you but it's a life lesson you really need to learn and it's better late than never.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
