Actually I think I might have done this anyway, but it is exciting doing it on my own, although a bit scary as well.
But I am convinced that if you keep you heart and mind open to new possibilities they happen, though not always as you want them. I had a very happy marriage, with little co-dependent behaviour, but I wouldn't want to go back now. Occasional loneliness is a small price to pay for huge freedom to grow and develop, and I think there are times in our life when we need to be alone. You never really learn to swim if you keep the armbands on do you?
