Slight success I felt tonight. He came home from work and after taking a bath called ow right away. He usually goes to his room to talk to her or outside. Some time later he came out to eat.. Asked me if he could as if he doesn't just eat when he wants to, but ow was still at the other end and he had his headset on.
He said a few unrelated thins to me, so I also said a few unrelated things on my own, some of them funny, so I laughed at my own jokes. My laugh is loud and contagious and he looked at me laughing as well. Shortly after.. And I'm not sure if it had anything to do with it they hung up and he stayed talking to me.
We were discussing costume ideas for Halloween and I pulled out a Minnie mouse costume (I have quite a few costumes that are new) I put it on with high black boots.. It was way too short on me.. I asked him how it looked.. He liked it he said it'd be easy for me to get a date if I want to.. To which I said perfect.. I should wear it then..
Btw I was in a really good mood while putting it on, meanwhile he put on a song.. A typical song that would make me cry while driving.. The lyrics were something like.. I didn't think it would be so hard to end it, say good bye.. I'm not really sure, I've heard the song before, but some of these lyrics only get to me now when they actually mean something. Well anyhow.. From being happy all of a sudden tears appeared and I was wondering if he put on the song on purpose..
I managed to get myself together and show the costume with a huge smile.
We spent some time.. I can almost say together listening to songs and joking. I asked him later if I could have some of the wine we have (he got it for his birthday last month) he said sure and bought the glasses and wine while ow decided to call. He did not pick up.. Took his time to open the bottle.. She called back a few sec later.. Most likely wondering why he's not answering.. He answered the the second time, but I felt out of this world that for the first time in months he ignored her for a sec for me..
Anyways they were talking for a while.. She asked questions of my dog.. ( I was real mad at this point.. Do not even talk about my dog... ) but I said nothing..
Then while he was talking to her he saw numbers on the wine bottle numbers 666688 and told me how it was the drink of Satan (because of the 6's) I forgot what the conversation went like about the number but we managed to laugh again to which ow hung up... (or the phone got disconnected.. Not sure) I was happy he tried calling her back but the phone was off. He sent her a few pictures by text to which she replied.. Now...
Anyways.. I know it's nothing, but if she felt the slightest jealousy I'm happy.
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012