If he chooses not to return than he was never worthy of your love. Never worthy of you.
As you said above. His actions don't dictate your life, your decisions, your happiness.
Good luck!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012