Yep.........I'm still here

[~¤DG¤~]

No, I am not concerned about that at all.
I understand why you might think that, but he hasn't even been to the dr since we've split. I haven't received any EOB emailed to me and I receive them both by email.
Besides, open enrollment starts soon for 2012 and he will not be on my insurance any longer.

My H is staying away because he knows I have taken this time to work on me, and he has not.
It's funny, I was at dinner with a friend tonight who is going through a lot of what I am also, and we both discussed how much we have changed. I know I am a different woman. I'm proud of who I am. I no longer feel inferior. I firmly believe that this will be his loss.