so since H hasn't had much work this last week, he has been acting stranger than usual. or maybe he is around more so i notice it.

1) back to his working out twice a day (same as when he started up with OW)

2) i came home from work because i forgot my new hire paperwork on the counter and when i walked in, he was in the office and i heard him slam the laptop shut. later....noticed he had visited a porn website. ugh. but....i get it i guess. better that than OW.

3) he acts like a CAGED CAT. seriously! he came home today about the same time as me, and he wanted us to do a bike ride together....but i told him i have a meeting with all of my GFs to plan our girl's trip. so he went on a "bike ride" alone and said he was going to get a drink. whatever!

my girl's trip is in a few weeks. part of me wants to double back and catch him NOT at our house that weekend....but then i think about all the fun i'll be missing not going with my friends to wine country.

Hmmmmmm.......decisions......WINE AND FRIENDS.....or....
CATCHING A CHEATER.......what would you choose?

new job is boring but now have great benefits. have to plan fun things to look forward to or i'll go crazy sitting in an office 8 hrs a day looking at a computer.

xo, abbey


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14