Just a few questions....
If the affair with OW dies a natural death does the spouse still go through withdrawls from that person and the R even though they claim they are done with them and are unhappy?

Also- how does my H continue to walk away from his kids? He seems to be making progress toward them we he is here but can leave and not show his face again till we call? Is it still the shame and guilt?? Or,pur laziness? Or, just not caring?