It makes me feel better, but the results and pain are still the same. I think it just makes it easier to forgive her and not be so angry.

It also makes me feel like there's hope for our marriage still. I've read about both MLC and WAW and they seem similar to me. I get the sense that a MLC changes their attitude towards life in general (kids, responsibilities, friends, etc) rather than just the H. Where the WAW is basically unhappy with her husband.

Am I wrong?