Compassion for a MLCer

[broken5150]

25,

The reason we never got a home of our own was because she basically included her mothers income into our daily spending. MIL paid the mortgage , we paid for food and bills. And we were STILL living paycheck to paycheck.because W was always planning vacations to the same theme parks every month and buying every new toy that came out for the kids which to me was not necessary.

W had to file for bankruptcy.

Things were falling apart in the house and they blamed me for not fixing it. I'm NOT a good handy man. And when I would tell them I would hire someone, they would tell me they had no money. But they had money for Vegas,Disney,six flags etc...

My w clearly stated at the begining of this separation that she will NEVER leave her mother.

I wanted my own home 25. But like I stated before, non of my rules , opinions or views were honored, respected or even considered.

It was a bad sitch 25.

Sometimes I think this might be a blessing in disguise. God let's things happen for a reason.

I hope w wakes up one day and gets her life together. Not for me, but for the well being of the kids.

Just came out of a so called 20 yr "abusive" R. If this were so, she should of gotten herself together, healed then start the dating thing.

She was lying to whole time telling me she did not want another man.

Yesterday, she sent me a random text telling me that she thanks god for OM. And that she never left me for another man,the OM came after the fact. And she said "sorry, that's just life".