I tried to keep the topic of the conversation strictly about the kids to make him feel more at ease. I forgot to mention that he did have a moment when he made a reference that I am messed up. I just told him that I did not believe that was the case and moved on. I don't know if he was projecting or what, but that was a little odd. One thing I did notice is how much he has aged. He looks so much like his father now and he seems to be losing a lot of muscle.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11