Well we had the school conference with my daughter. Ex showed up 5 minutes late. It looked like he had been tanning because he was very dark. He came in a suit and tie. After the conference we walked out in the hallway and I gave him the receipts for the glasses. He was very cordial and I tried my best talking calmly and thanked him for reinbursing me for the expense. We talked for about an hour about kid stuff in the hallway and then I started walking outside to my car. He walked with me to the car and noticed that I had a boat hitch on my vehicle. He asked why I had that and I told him that the car came with it when I bought it. He told me he would be happy to take it off for me and got on the ground in his suit and tie and tried to take off the boat hitch in the middle of the school parking lot. I told him that it would not come off on its own and I have to go to a dealer to get it off. He insisted on doing it and was not successfull. He wanted so badly to do something for me...... Anyway, we talked for another hour and by then my daughter was tired of listening to our chit chat so I ended the conversation. He is close to the old H, but with alittle edge. I could tell in parts of the conversation he was trying to bait me. He brought up OW once and really focused on how I reacted. I just blew it off like it was no big deal. It was very interesting and I really don't know what to make of the whole thing....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11