I'll post more details later but I'm happy for you to have a L and that's quite a gift your friend gave you.
I want you to rethink your postion though, that you "built a home & family" with your w b/c you did NOT build a home. I still don't know how either of you expected to have a nice life with a mil like that OR how you didnt' save any money for a real home of your own.
Ironically it'll take THIS to get you on your own so you DO build a home for your family, even if it's only the kids who stay there. I'm glad you are getting a place to live, save some money and you can pay your w in accordance with what your L tells you.
You need to save and invest or you'll be on the streets someday. That's not cool or responsible. But pay no attention to what your w does or says. Let it roll off your back.
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
