Gunny I know that feeling of depression.The eye lids become heavy and you can't breath. I usually take a walk and it helps. You sir seem like a real great person. Some have told me the same, to let her go. I'm sorry to say that I pushed my W away with my angry outburst so my sitch is a bit different. I don't know if there is OP in my W's life, But sometimes I think she maybe in a MLC. She is like a kid with her horse and has been for about 2 years. She spends all of her time and money on this hobby of hers. Not justifying my baggage. I just felt like dropping in and saying hi, hang in there man we will survive this.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden