Yes guilting him last time did help to get him home for 2 yrs. last time, he would have still been home if i didnt check on his where abouts. it was not the only thing that worked but i think it made him realize how he was hurting people.

I do think people have a right to their opinion. do you accept everyones opinion?

H does have money sometimes but as soon as he gets it he spends it all. He gets paid for jobs that he does for ins cos, but he never knows when they are going to send the check.h pays my mortgage, and my car is paid off. i didnt say he had funny business deals that i know of, i just want to file separately.
c likes to stay focused on solutions not the problem when i go.
and i appreciate the time and effort from vc, and 25 yrs.
Yea, right i have nothing better to do with my time than make up this ficticious story for the past 4 yrs. i wish it was ficticious.