Steven, unfortunately it is a little unclear, but this specific forum is for people who are planning on leaving their spouses.

Yes, some people who want to exit a marriage will actually seek out this site to speak with people to see if maybe they should change their mind...

So this forum especially, can get very little traffic.

If you would start a thread in the newbies forum, you are likely to get more support. But it still takes time to get into the mix at the beginning...