Hi, Dc. There does seem to be a part of your W that clings to your M. That's why she wants to know what you are doing.
I am glad you are really detaching now. It helps with your peace of mind, and you don't have to keep thinking about what she is doing. Let her move forward with whatever she feels she needs to do, you go on about living your life. If and when she feels what is really right for her is to be with you, you can decide whether or not you still want that.
You know, sometimes our pride keeps us from what we really want, and sends us on a path we shouldn't take. So, this D may be that for your W.
