thanks for the reply.. I am actually sick of my own voice these days, My H says he is trying to work on himself right now, he hasnt used the words "depressed" but has acknowledged he is not "right mentally" we have been separated now for 2 months and have barely spoke of what we are going to do, he says he doesnt know and hasnt really thought about it. however in text messages he says our relationship ending and things at work have left him angry. His moods seem to change on a dime, and I am not even sure i am talking to the same man I have been married to. My friends all think we just need time, we are good for each other and we did have alot of wonderful memories but I am finding myself with negative thoughts more now then ever, and if it is over i just want the pain to end. He is still wearing his wedding ring and I know all he is doing is working and sleeping, he says the only thing that matters to him right now is our daughter and that is all that keeps him calm, with her he can forget about the rest of the world. I have been divorced before and it was nothing like this, there was another women in that divorce and we filed right away. though the pain of it was comparable, I feel like I need to fight for my marriage and my husband this time. My H has never been through a divorce, I really believe him when he says there is not another women, and that this is more like a break down. i am so lost as to what to do. Me 40 H 43 m 11yrs s 08/13/2011 d 8 d 16 (mine from prev marriage)
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
