Yes, he has done nothing but talk. That is why I told him I am moving forward with D unless there is action on his part. He still feels drinking is not an issue for him. I disagree and would have to be dealt with. He gets so mad when you bring it up that I don't. To me, it is the same as bringing up R issues. It pushes him back and get defensive. From this I know - he knows- it is a problem of some sort. I do believe the filing had something to do with his sudden realizations. But, as other MLCers I figured the reason he hadn't done anything "by now" was because he was/is in the tunnel. Maybe he is starting to see a little light? I know he is not there yet. I will continue as I am. He is still very distant from us. I have no choice to continue. Either I end up with a better marriage or I end up alone but with having improved myself and my other R's and having a great future. I have my kids, health, freinds, and God.
