I also copied TG's words. They are worth a second, third, fouth, etc... read. Love is a choice. Real love is unconditional. Those are hard lessons not everyone learns. Thanks TG.
Cam, hang in there. I know how hard it is. I read in the Journey from Abandonment to Healing (or some other loss book recently) that "OUR" grief is the worst kind. IOW, even though many of us are experience similar sitches, it hurts so much when it is our own sitch. We can empathize, but we can only truly feel our own pain. And that is what we have to do.
Keep posting. I think just knowing people are out here pulling for us helps on some level!!
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed
