That's what he said, it would "wipe the slate clean." Whether we are married or not, the baggage will always be there.
I am trying to look at it as a good sign. I really don't have a problem with us starting over and dating each other, if we have never gotten married in the first place. What I am afraid of with him, he is going to think since we are not married then he could do anything he wants without me saying a word. But doesn't he realize whether we are married or not, he will still be in a committed relationship.
He is a hard person to figure out. I am not going to do anything to help him out regarding a divorce. If he wants it, he can do all the work.
