alcoholic H decided he wants D

[imthemom]

ok, so got threw first whole day and night with no contact but am now realizing that I will be seeing him Friday...I sold my motorcycle to an out of state buyer and have to meet the freight company at the house (our house that H still lives in) to pick it up. He asked me to schedule this when he was there as he didnt want to give me the key to the house.
Im sure he will bring up the D and what we are going to do..when he originally told me he had got the papers from a service that files them for you (cheap) he had met with me to ask me what I wanted to do. I took the approach of this is not what I want, this is all you so you just tell me what the plan is and we will go form there. HE said he didnt have a plan and basically wanted me to tell him what to do...He said "your not helping me" and my reply was no im not, this is not what I want so Im not going to help you. The agreement he wanted me to sign was totally unrealistic and we then proceeded to argue by text and one sit down face to face that did not end well. In anger I then told him to do what he had to do and I would do the same, he was not happy when I told him what a lawyer had given me number wise and it then became very confentational. He then agreed to sit down with the lawyer whom I had met with for a consult and see if we could work something out with her and split the cost. I feel like if I do that Im helping him get a D...so i decided to just wait and see if he has me served.
so now we stand at he thinks im just going to go ahead with this and (in anger i told him fine lets just get this done) I know he will bring it up tomorrow. what do I say? what approach do I take? I need specific advice for this so I can buy more time. He has already paid and got his papers from this service but has gone no further...do I just tell him what I said before? this is his idea, just do what you have to do?? Im trying to GAL and distance myself from him but telling him again that I dont want a D and that im not going to help him sounds needy and will just upset him all over again......Im confused as to how to approach the subject and not look like im being difficult...please give me some ideas on how to handle him tommorow....
thanks guys
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